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Boundaries 101

Learn why boundaries matter and how to set them professionally without feeling guilty.

✓ FREE GUIDE

Why Boundaries Matter

Without boundaries, you'll work more hours, earn less per hour, and burn out faster. Boundaries aren't about being rude - they're about being professional.

✗Saying 'yes' to every request = working weekends for free
✗No clear scope = unlimited revisions
✗Available 24/7 = clients texting you at midnight

Common Mistakes Beginners Make

✗Replying immediately to every message

Why it's a problem: Sets expectation you're always available

✓Set response time expectations (e.g., 'I respond within 24 hours')
✗Doing 'just one more small tweak' for free

Why it's a problem: Scope creep becomes the norm

✓Say: 'Happy to help - this would be a revision outside our scope. Would you like a quick quote?'
✗Working before payment is clear

Why it's a problem: You might never get paid

✓Require deposit or payment terms upfront

5 Boundary Principles

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1. Define the Work Upfront

Be specific about what you will and won't do. Write it down.

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2. Set Communication Hours

You don't need to be available 24/7. Set working hours and stick to them.

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3. Clarify Revision Limits

Include a specific number of revisions in your agreement (e.g., 2 rounds included).

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4. Use Polite Scripts

Have prepared responses for common boundary situations.

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5. Don't Feel Guilty

Setting boundaries isn't rude - it's professional. Good clients respect them.

Scripts You Can Use

Client asks for work outside scope
"I'd be happy to help with that! Since it's outside our original agreement, let me send you a quick quote for the additional work."
Client messages after hours
"Thanks for reaching out! I'll respond to this during my working hours (9am-5pm). Talk soon!"
Client wants unlimited revisions
"The current package includes 2 revision rounds. I can add more rounds at $X each, or we can discuss a different package."

Remember

Setting boundaries doesn't make you difficult. It makes you professional. Good clients will respect them. Difficult clients will reveal themselves early - and that's a gift.